Tuesday, November 1, 2011

How lucky we are.....

Tomorrow, we will have had my honey home from the hospital for one week. Our daughter Gale, "the nurse", gets her Stethoscope and listens to his chest.......and she says it sounds clear. Finally, the pneumonia is gone. He's still weak and feels bad, but she tells him it's going to take awhile for him to recover. Just standing, to shave, makes him weak and gasping for breath.

Today, we went to the Cancer Center for his monthly appointment with his oncologist, and Dr. H verified what "our nurse" had been saying. "You were very sick, it's going to take awhile for you to get over this." He finished up with "You are looking good". Dr. H can always put a smile on his face. If confidence in one's doctor is half the battle, then we're on our way to winning the fight!

What a long day this turned out to be! It was the day for the Zometa infusion, but because he has had pneumonia it was now necessary to begin having IVIG (immunoglobulins) infusions. The immunoglobulin is a blood product administered intravenously. It contains the pooled IgG (immunoglobulin (antibody) G) extracted from the plasma of over one thousand blood donors. IVIG's effects last between 2 weeks and 3 months. It is mainly used when the patient has had an acute infection or has a compromised immune system (as is caused by MM and the treatment thereof).

The IVIG is given in his Infusa Port, with Benadryl, Zantac, and Steroids and takes approximately 4 - 5 hours to administer. He slept much of the time during the procedure, and by the time we started toward home, near 3 p.m., the steroids had taken over ...... and he talked, non-stop!

He still has terrible pains, in his legs ...... those pains that are close to bringing tears. "Our nurse" has begun to give him Tylenol whenever he takes his Dilaudid, and it does seem to help. Dr. H also agreed it was a good idea as long as he doesn't receive more than 4 grams (4,000 mg), per day.

We know that it's getting close to time for "our nurse" to get back to her home, and her family (just as our TX daughter had to do), and I'm dreading that time.  How lucky we are. I thank the Good Lord, everyday, for these two special daughters. They are my strength. How lucky we are.

6 comments:

  1. OH, SARAH, I WAS SOOOO HAPPY TO HEAR ALL HAS GONE SO WELL WITH BOB, AND THAT HE IS HOME!!!
    I HOPE ALL THE FORTIFICATION HE RECEIVED TODAY - THE INFUSION, AND THE REASSURANCE THAT THE GOOD DR. VERBALIZED, REINFORCING GALE'S, WILL SEE HIM THROUGH A COMFORTABLE RECOVERY. AND OH, THOSE STEROIDS - GOT HIM INTO TALKING A BLUE STREAK, DID THEY?! YOU MUST HAVE BEEN AMAZED. WHAT A BLESSING THAT GALE HAS BEEN ABLE TO BE WITH YOU DURING THE TRANSITION TO HOME. I KNOW IT WILL BE HARD TO SEE HER GO, BUT HAVE NO DOUBT YOU WILL DO JUST FINE. JUST TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF - YOU, TOO HAVE BEEN THROUGH AN AWFUL LOT. WARM HUGS, KAREN

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  2. Karen: Thanks! It's so wonderful to have these two daughters.....they've brought joy, all our lives....and now, they bring strength! I just don't even want to think about days without either of them.

    Bob is doing better....just gotta' keep him "up and moving".

    Hugs to you!!

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  3. I feel your fight. It so hard to fight so hard. Just reach back and get another grip and fight some more. Bob is a Lucky, Lucky guy to have his team fighting to keep him in this world. Keep up the fight. You will remember these times some of these day and smile and say "I DID MY BEST".

    Your friend,

    Harold

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  4. Oh good news indeed!
    You are very lucky to have a nurse in the family. Now the process of re-building begins - he'll soon be back on the golf course! ;)

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  5. Harold: Thanks!! That (and getting him well) is all we can hope for.

    Appreciate your friendship....and your prayers.

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  6. Roo: How great it will be...the day he can once again swing a golf club.

    I'm very thankful that we have a nurse, experienced in Geriatric care.

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